Men who really get it - what factors change the "we had chemistry" factor at the end of the date for you?

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-04-07T01:17:49+00:00

First of all I get it, you didn't want to miss your chance but consider if that's how you really want to operate your life.

Have you heard the concept of play to win vs. play to not lose?

This sounded like a "play to not lose" event. You were going in to appease her.

I'm just sharing ideas with you. I've done similar things. When I know I'm acting a little needy like that, I take a huge step back and tell myself "I'm going to do this for me and if I never see her again after that's fine. This is my choice to go and I'm just going to enjoy myself"

Got to get detached if you're going to do something less than optimal.

Another thing is, I learned not every girl will like me nor will I have chemistry with every girl. I can make a joke with one chick but another thinks it's rude. So at the end of the day I can only be true to myself and honest with my intentions

PurpleCookie_Og · 2022-04-07T00:20:22+00:00

She flaked on u And u did nothing. That’s where your downfall started

Title	Men who really get it - what factors change the "we had chemistry" factor at the end of the date for you?
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Date	April 6, 2022 11:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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