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[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Rather than taking things so personal, you should be glad you got feedback as most women will not give you any feedback at all to improve your mistakes and then you are left wondering what you did wrong.
Yes, women can pick up easily on a guy who isn’t confident no matter how hard you try to hide it women can tell because the behaviour of an insecure person trying to pretend he is confident it’s usually not coherent.
They talked to so many guys to know very easily, when a guy is confident and when he is not.
If you were confident you would have just gone for a kiss also in the date. You would have made your move, but you didn’t for whatever reason. Doesn’t matter the reason you had you just didn’t.
If she wants friendship is because you gave off a platonic vibe, not a sexual one. This is always what leads women to say they just want friendship
[–]biokaizen[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I know what my weak points are, I have social phobia and low anxiety, I know that since 18 years old, now im almost 40. I dont need that nobody tell me the obvious. But I manage it ok when I meet with girls (not being in group). I have done special efforts through my life with this, cannot do more.
Above all, I cant do nothing for my low beta voice, this is a pussy killer.
I don´t what a feedback because I intuit it, and through my life sometimes a stupid girl like this told me exactly the same. Normally is this or than Im ugly too.
I never give feedback to a girl
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah seems like you take yourself too seriously that’s the problem. You are clearly in no condition to date women in a healthy way if you over react like this
[–]biokaizen[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why don't I have the right to offend her when I've been offended?
She offends me based on nothing, I offend her based on her offense. It's fair, it's karma, it's balance, the evil is her
For me, notice that im rejected because im unsecure without asking any explanation is equal or even more offense for me, that a girl with obesity unsecurities.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude you are over reacting, you need a thicker skin.
If you want to offend her go ahead if it makes you feel better about yourself but it still won’t make your life better in any way with girls when you get so triggered so easily.
You are gonna have a really bad dating life if you keep being so petty and so insecure regardless of the girls behaviour
[–]SyreksDungeon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She was born probably the same year as you. You were both babies shitting in your diapers once, you were both teenagers with pimples on your faces once and today you are both adults who dont know shit about life. Why would you let her opinion dictate who you are if you guys are equal? Dont ever let anybody lower your self steem, youve gone through shit, the same as them.
Now when it comes to dating, you have questions about her comment? Ask her! "What do you mean?" If she likes you, she will explain further. After she explains, make a decision.
She after said for free that "im not looking for somebody like me for relationship", but yes for "friendship", obviously friendship without sex I guess.
So, I told her "i didnt ask any explanation, so im going to give you mine: I dont like morbidly obese" . And then I waited for her to read it, and then I block her.
Fuck her, she hurt me for free. I never write back after the date because of this. I dont like to see how they show indifference, but I understand indifference, indifference is not a offense for me. But this is different.
Even she could have wrote "we hadnt 100% affinity", but no, she had to tell me the most I hate to lower my selfsteem: My insecurities, my beta personality, even when I was funny and ingenious
[–]SyreksDungeon 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To be honest bro, the morbidly obese comment is too childish and easy to respond to: If you don't like her physical appearance why go out with her?
I feel like if a girl texts you, she wants your attention in some level, so she can still be seduced. Instead of replying about her physical appearance, you should have replied about her character. She is talking about your character, so talk about her character.
Something like: "and who are you to talk about other people's confidence? Ill be honest I liked you, but I hate people that judge other people" could have probably made her think about her character. Funny thing, when you make a woman second guess who she is, she sometimes lowers her guard, and is easier to seduce. (Thats a trick i learned through practice lol)
Ill tell you a story about this technique lol. 7 months ago I met this cute girl at a bar. Never had a girl like her before. I flirted with her, she flirted back, i asked for her number and she gave it to me. Next morning I text her, and she replies. I text her that we should go out and she ghosts me...
I kept texting her weekly for like a month and she replied like a spoiled brat, and kept on ghosting me. Fast forward to one month ago, I receive a text and it's her! Saying that now she changed her mind. I texted her for a bit, and she started to ghost me again for like an hour.
So i sent her a text saying "you know what, as much as id like to grab that tiny waist while im fucking you doggystyle, I also changed my mind, i am the one who dont wanna talk to you now. I got better standards than to be dealing with a spoiled brat" she replied "okidoki", i left her on read...
10mins later she texts me "but how am I spoiled?".... She bit.... I texted her I wanted someone to communicate and that I could count would communicate back and blah blah blah
I ended up fucking her that night at her house lmaooooo we have fucked again, and I only text her when I want to. And she replies.
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