Just this last week I’ve ran into a record amount of ghosting and unmatching, not just from online dating.

Three of which I had dates lined up over the coming days, ghosted or unmatched me. I don’t know what goes on in the mind of these women. One day we’re having poetic banter and mutually sexual conversation, the next they are completely disinterested. All of the invested time in conversation up in smoke - it baffles me.

As much as I could blame them for being indecent humans, I want to shift the focus to what can be done to mitigate it. There must be something that I’m completely tonedeaf to, and I’m willing to take some time off to figure it out.

I’m feeling pretty undervalued at the moment. If you have any resources or anecdotes to offer please comment