Best way to approach girls at bars/dance club?

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-02-27T13:26:29+00:00

The skill you are looking for is how to improvise conversation based on their reaction to your opener. Basically, clear your mind and say whatever pops into your head to open. It could be a comment on the group, the girl, or whatever. It could be just about anything.

I've seen an experienced coach open with "Tomatos...Green Peppers..." It wasn't a good opener, but the coach was demoing you can say anything. The girls started saying other vegetables and then he was in set.

The problem for most people is they think they don't know what to say, but the actually do. But, social conditioning has most of us feeling like whatever we would just blurt out won't be good enough, so we filter ourselves and think we don't know what to say. You have to prove to yourself you can say just about anything and its not a big deal. Then prove you can improvise conversation to whatever they say in response to your opener. Then just practice.

The general advice is to try and talk to everyone. Just practice opening conversations with people. Remember its your body language and behavior that will generate attraction, so bring energy and the right vibe. Keep everything fun, always. Never self judgement.

2022-02-27T13:05:41+00:00

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UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-02-27T10:27:54+00:00

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Title	Best way to approach girls at bars/dance club?
Author	West_Statement9435
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Date	February 27, 2022 10:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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