I ( 59M) have been following many of the community masters for years. But this girl has me overthinking what to do.

A little on the background to the story. about 2 1/2 weeks ago a beautiful 24 year woman sent me a introductory note on Online ( POF) she shared that she has previously dated a man that was 30 + years older than herself when she was only 20. She said that he got all possesive and wanted her to move in with him. I never got the impression that it was a sugar baby arrangement. He still is trying to screw her cause it was that hot. ( She has not been online to the dating website, so I am pretty sure its not a case of some other guy getting with her before I can even step up to the plate. I do follow astrology somewhat. She is a textbook scorpio. Wants to be in control. very guarded.

SO. First few days we are texting and she is getting pretty graphic, but there are so many roadblocks. Chats are frequent and pretty cool

-She doesn't want to talk on the phone

- Will ignore me for a few days then just randomly give me a shout out. But then the chats are pretty short.

-Everytime I invite her to join me me for a drink or meal she is always busy or doesn't respond.

So, I am not constantly checking in with her to kind of let her know I am still around. ( I am working hard to avoid 1-itis) . I would absolutely love to be sleeping with a woman that young, and figure this might be my opportunity of a lifetime. I don't have strong approach skills. I don't go to bars/ nightclubs. But I do have pretty solid online skills.

What are your guys thoughts? Should I just walk away and let her do what ever she does. 2- Keep up the reaching out to her with minimal results, 3-or be the one in control and tell her that I have other opportunities and hope she takes that as a challenge that other women are stepping up in front of her. Kinda pushing my chips all in as I really don't have anything invested.

I know this is a haphazard post. I will fill in more holes in the story as you post questions/ suggestions. Bottom line, this is the young HB 9 I have I have always wanted. Help seal the deal.