1. Who are you?
  2. How old are you?
  3. What's your height?
  4. Where you from?
  5. Why'd you message me?
  6. Where do I know you from?
  7. Why do you want my phone number?
  8. Why do you want my SnapChat?
  9. May I ask what it is you wanted to do? (after you ask her to hang out)
  10. Do you know X, Y, Z? (where these are people that are her friends)
  11. What do you want?
  12. What do you need?

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