So me (M28) and this girl (f28) match on Tinder from time to time.

Before we started talking on Insta but I wasn't really that into her because she seemed uninterested. I stopped pursuing because she I would ask her a question and she would not reply. So we unfollowed.

I was horny and hungover during valentines day gay and saw her on tinder, swiped right on her and we matched. And have been talking.

This time I'm making more of an effort, and for the most part so is she, but I will ask her a question, she will open the message and not reply. I was out last night and we were in the same bar, chatted here and there but she seemed occupied so I just went and did my own thing.

She messaged me saying she went back to her brothers and sent me a video message to be fair, asked her did she get home OK and she opened and didn't reply.

Why is she doing this? I don't get it!

Tl;Dr why is a girl not texting back