Im more on the emotional side and im calm and introspective. Can this be attractive or do I have to be loud and dominating and fun?

2022-02-16T02:17:09+00:00

Trying to be someone you aren't isn't going to work. You can just be an attractive version of yourself. There are many ways of being attractive that correspond to different personalities and will attract different girls who have their own preferences. But make sure you aren't repressing your emotions and afraid that if you show them people will reject you.

Greeny_442 · 2022-02-16T00:53:29+00:00

At the end of the day the main thing I think especially for myself who normally picks up girls in clubs is you want to make yourself memorable and different from the others, that's why people do stuff like peacock theory to give them something to think about.

If you are able to approach someone and get them talking then you are able to initiate a connection. I mean for you I feel like if you can pick a target especially if they have just been with / been arround someone who is quite dominant and potent then you can contrast this quite nicely.

I make my friends do this when I'm chatting to someone I may go a bit overboard and then introduce them to my calmer friends. Not all the time it works but its a good way of getting them talking and normally they prefer this shift in social dynamic

T_biologic · 2022-02-16T02:35:01+00:00

I’m the same way. I think we would get along quite well and maybe Lear a thing or two...😍

LilHubbs · 2022-02-16T04:36:28+00:00

Honestly you're exactly my type of dude. I don't really like those that're too loud or extroverted. You're great just the way you are! Don't become boring and basic...

Lord_Augastus · 2022-02-16T05:01:39+00:00

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-Well like others say, play your strengths and be yourself. How long can you realistically wear a mask and be happy?

-2nd of all women/people chase different things. so the answer is yes. You can, because women chase comfort as much as fun, strength as much dominance, wisdom as much as charm....Not everyone chaces all of these or equally. So your best bet is just finding people who you can get along with and maybe have sex with, instead of trying to get laid by manipulation and acting like you wish you could because you have a warped sense of what gets women wet

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