Little background, I was a loser in high school until senior year when I lost 50 or so pounds and people finally listened to what I had to say as someone other than the fat kid. That said, i still had very little experience with girls coming into college.

TL;DR: High SMV guy cant pull?

I’m 19, at a school with 60% girls and have gotten laid once this year. I’m decently attractive, in good shape, in a good frat but I’m 5’8 and pretty sexually inexperienced. I have the opportunity to fuck ugly chicks who have been into me, but attractive chicks are a whole different story and generally I can only pull when I’m drunk, and even then I “only” hook up with them, not fuck.

My social proof is pretty high. I’m more or less the “leader” of my friend group which is also all decently high SMV guys. I have plenty of friends that are girls, all hot of course, that constantly wanna hang out (and not fuck).

Needless to say, I’m insatiably horny and all I want to do is get my dick wet. When I approach and actually open to a girl I get good reactions a large majority of the time, but I have a lot of sexual hang ups due to my inexperience that really affects my confidence. Also, I notice girls coming onto my friends relatively frequently, which doesn’t happen to me that often except at parties, where I usually hook up with multiple girls per night, which is assume indicates I’m at least physically attractive, since girls seem to be most attracted to me when I’m not saying much or just dancing with them.

In every other aspect of my life, I’m “alpha”. My life and environment is completely in my control, but the lack of experience with girls really makes me question myself and what I’m doing. How should I combat this issue?