I'm the first guy she's dating after a 5years of relationship with another, whom cheated on her.

We're now dating for about 2 months.

She said that she's over him (however sometimes brings him up), yet told me that she doesn't want to hop into another relationship right now, that I should not get 'too involved'.

However when we're together laying in bed, looking at eachothers eyes, getting into deep convos etc. It conveys a different message.

She says she doen't want to get too involved, but acts fully like we're lovers, not just fwb.

I really like this girl, how to proceed? Be non needy and just keep fucking her well, and brining good times so she has time to fully heal after her previous bf. Or do I get more romantic, and show gradually more involvement and investment ?

I want to get her to be my girlfriend.

Thanks.