so i've been in a relationship for 3 years and we broke up in october 21. things weren't working out so we parted ways but in good terms. we still do have contact sometimes via chat and grabbed a coffee a week ago. we still love eachother but due to multiple things that happened we can't get together anymore - at least now - it would be dumb bc we still would have the same problems as we need time to work on ourselves etc..

So i've had a little fun over these 3 months and i met a nice and cute girl at the club last saturday. she approached me (crazy) and we made out for like an hour (we both were drunk lol) but we really vibed as we also talked (as good as you can in a club) - and i asked if she would come to my place afterwards bc i thought she would be totally down - she declined so i thought that was the end - we exchanged insta and said goodybe after the club closed. she texted me instantely and we texted a bit the day after and she asked for a date that happened yesterday. It was great we went to a restaurant and had good conversations and made out in my car afterwards for like 2 hours while also talking and touching and all this stuff.

the thing is i'm sure she wants something serious but i'm not ready for this as i also said i still love my ex and i want time for working on myself. But I like this girl and don't wanna hurt her because she is a cute girl and don't deserve this but we didn't talk about stuff like this yesterday and just vibed. we also said we'll see us again.

As i said i don't want to hurt her but i still enjoyed yesterday and i could imagine that i will enjoy the next date as well. i just want to go with the flow but i'm a little scared of what i should say if she askes about our future or what my plans are w her (this question will come).. should i just say i just want to go w the flow bc this is what i'm doing rn.. thanks for reading and commenting :)