Need help with dealing with the physical aspect of flirting

PuroPincheGains · 2022-02-09T22:09:12+00:00

Kino is kino brother. You just do it, and if she's not into it at anytime, you take two steps back and maybe try again later. i know you're nervious, but you just have to practice it. Here's my kino routine:

Start the date by greeting her with a hug. Normalize touching each other.
Never sit across from her, sit next to her.
When she says something awesome or mentions an accomplishment of hers, give her a high five.
If she says something crazy or super awesome, touch her shoulder or arm in disbelief. An overexaggerated surprise reaction if you will.
Challenge her to a thumb wrestling match. Normalize touching hands.
Teach her a secret handshake. More normalizing touching hands.
Read her palms. More normalizing touching hands. Totally unnecessary at this point but it's just another baby step if you need it.
Touching hands has now been normalized, so hold her hand. You should be AT LEAST a good hour into the date at this point.
If she's been comfortable holding hands, she's probably cool with kissing you.

All of that happens very slowly and gradually. It could take place over multiple dates, but 95% of the time I get the first kiss on the first date. The dates usually last 3-5 hours.

profcoper · 2022-02-09T22:27:55+00:00

It will feel forced to a degree regardless of experience imo. The trick is to get the momentum going with very small low risk touches, and then as things ramp up it becomes way more natural. Comfiest low risk touches could be slighty and briefly touching her arm when making a point, or light touch on shoulder.

AccomplishedReason18 · 2022-02-10T05:51:40+00:00

Drinks help !

2022-02-15T04:03:58+00:00

Going dancing is probably one of the best things I’ve ever done. I suck at it but the better you are, the better the results. Most girls at a country bar or a Latin place or wherever you go to dance to the music you like will want to dance if you know what you’re doing. Many of them will still want to dance if you don’t know what you’re doing. It’s the best excuse to touch a girl you’re interested in as soon as possible. Plus, if your goal is to get laid, they can take a tour of you with their hands before you take them home.

As for going on a date, can’t help ya. I have the same issue with breaking the physical barrier on dates other than a hug to say hello or goodbye.

Title	Need help with dealing with the physical aspect of flirting
Author	bisaku69
Upvotes	21
Comments	4
Date	February 9, 2022 4:27 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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