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[–]ItIsICoachCal 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How long have you known each other? If for a couple weeks and she invites you on a trip yeah she's into you. If for a couple years, probably not. How did she invite you on the trip, and what sort of trip is it?
Couple of red flags in the framing here, for instance the phrasing of her as "my crush", singular and possessive, is already putting way more investment into this person than she is likely putting into you. Also you are looking for "moves" like if you put in the right combination of inputs she'll be into you. Even if that were the case, strangers on the internet know nothing about her and would or would not likely work for her. Even then, going in with a step-by-step plan leaves no room for adjusting to her or the situation.
Come at it from an abundance mentality. There are many attractive women in the world and you happen to going on a trip with one of them. You are looking to have fun and reciprocate and flirtatious energy coming your way. If the moment feels right, escalate. If you escalate and get disinterest, listen to that and don't feel like you have to continue for the sake of your plan.
[–]RobertCis 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
We go to college together, we went on a date but that's about it. We don't know each other that well.
[–]ItIsICoachCal 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When did you go on that date? How did it go? What sort of trip? Hard to give specific advice if I have no idea about the specifics of the situation.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just sit on a sofa at night, give her a massage, tel her you think she is sexy, and so on
[–]Paras_01155 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just be yourself. If she’s showing signs, then capitalise on it.
[–]ReadingThen4732 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she’s obviously attracted to you and/or feels comfortable around you if it’s just you two bro 😎. Make sure that voice and eye contact is smoother than usual night 1 in the room . Shout out to you my guy !
[–]missterrcammeraa 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Calm down whatever happens happens
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