So I have been a part of this sub for many years (I don't post much and give advice when I have time). It has truly, truly changed my life with women and how they think and with prioritizing and clarifying my goals in life with my mission.

That being said...It seems for about 60-70% of the girls that I have had carnal relations with in the past I seem to have issues with getting it up sometimes or even cumming a little too early (this is when we have sex the first couple times, after that it only gets better).

It also seems to go away the more and more that I fuck the chick and the sex (and I) get much better. Sometimes, some chicks the sexual chemistry is so strong that I have no issues on a first time sex basis.

Is it the old school beta tendencies I have in my head that I have to get "used" to a girl when having sex with her in order for it to get better? How do I overcome this first time uncomfortability and anxiety with a chick?

In my head I am not letting it bother me and have outcome independence so when it does happen I don't even mention it and chalk it up to first time jitters. It is weird though. When a chick is giving me head, in my mind it feels fantastic, but when I look down I can't get hard. It is like some sort of beta mental block that's telling me "you need to get the know the chick better before I will perform".

But sometimes on the first sexy time with a chick is electric and I have no issues. Other times it takes a couple sessions for me to really get into my groove. It makes no sense sometimes and I feel that my beta lizard brain is sabotaging me because I used to think that banging a chick early was not chivalrous back in the day.

Any thoughts? Experiences? Advice?