I suppose I'm pretty suave and charismatic as most girls I meet I can escalate fairly quickly with. Last night I matched with a college girl, went to the park, made out, and fucked in the back of her car.

My issue comes afterwards, though. Next day I talk to her, then she texts that she doesn't think she should see me anymore. I respond "I'm sad to hear that, but I understand. Goodbye." She removes me from tinder and I presume blocks my number.

I'm not terribly bothered by this, but it happens often enough that I'm thinking I'm doing something wrong; Maybe escalating too fast or contacting too soon. Or maybe I just need to forget about it and move on, but I'd like a consistent girl than having to find new ones constantly.

As an add, I hear often "I hate how you make me feel like doing this." I'd guess it's somewhat related.