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[–]lekkerlad9 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You talk to girls the same way you talk to anyone. It’s an interaction- you make it what you want it to be. I’m not sure how you talk to you friends but it’s similar to that, basically speaking about things you guys like or experiences you have, bantering with one another. When you speak to a girl, it’s a normal interaction but you dictate where you want it to go. Want to be friends?- Be friendly and don’t make it man to woman or escalate. Want to take things further?- insert some game in the interaction, flirt and playfully touch, tease her and be funny. When the interaction is at a high point, ask her out and escalation is just getting verbally and physically sexual by reading her reactions to what you do.
Have fun with it, basic things like this are now over complicated by your own mind. Be in control.
[–]chocolex23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No man I'll not agree on the part "You talk to girls as you talk with guy friends" cuz with guys we talk with curse words and some topics like adult stuff, sex etc which cannot be introduced when conversing with a girl.
You have to be polite and not let these things slip into it. Basically you have to modify how you interact. It's not completely different but slightly different.
Also idk about the touching part. Do you touch your female friends ? Sorry for this. I do have female friends but I make sure not to touch them and keep a distance. Although i have touched sometimes it's not I the one who did it but the girl touching me willingly or accidentally.
Ok bro i got you.
I was just like you till 2 years ago. I didn't interact with girls before that. When I entered college i was keeping a distance with girls.
But one day our seat numbers were allotted and miraculously a girl was a number before me. At first I didn't say a word and we didn't talk the entire lecture (we were sitting beside each other). Then as time went on she started initiating conversations telling me "Hi" "How are you" "Good morning" etc. I just responded back whenever she said something.
This went on and i realized it's rather easy to talk to girls. It's just that we have to be polite and mind a few things (like curse words, abuses or sexual stuff not to be slipped into convos, it makes a bad impression).
So whenever you feel like talking to a girl just say "Hi" she'll respond and you can say something else or just leave. As you keep saying "hi" to girls and get "hi" "hey" back you'll get confident in it and will be able to talk more.
There's no rocket science in it. Just be calm and talk politely it'll work.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Straight up, you just do it
[–]lilbigguy412 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
be chad
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