Bout 3 nights ago, my wing and I met these two very adventurous and fun girls...

Went on insta date to a mini-golf bar sort of establishment.

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Long story short, we end up pulling back to our apartment, and the girl I was focused on, her name was Tara, was just constantly push pulling me... but more so pushing alot, like a master a pushing verbally, and her pulls were more so non-verbal... like through eye contact, proximity and tone of voice...

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She was probably one of the best sets I've had, like i just really enjoyed her company and i felt we had similar humour so we laughed alot together... (i fucked up the set btw at the end lol, but lets not get into that).

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My friend said it's because she really hot, like 8-9, so that's why she has a natural push pull?

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But my question is, how do you deal with it? I was trying to be non-reactive but fuck some of the emotional spikes she was giving me was driving me insane!, like she said she changed a car tire, and i said "a mans job" which I wasn't trying to be offensive its just what came to mind, and idk even know how to change a tire lol...

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And she got up from the coach and was about to leave lmao! I was like WOW!

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what does it show about a woman who does alot of push pull? is it low value? manipulation? or just something all apart of the "dance" like Vadim says?

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but yea mostly how do i deal with this, and take control of the push pulling, so she is reacting to me, and im not at the end of her mercy