So sometime ago i used to like a girl and wanted to pursue her but soon enough i kinda lost feelings and so i stop thinking about her however she still remained a good friend. She used to like this other dude who is a really good friend of mine.

yesterday i went out on dinner with couple of friends and these two were also there and we were telling each other what the best thing about them were.

She told me I’m a really approachable person who can have amazing conversation that feel authentic and natural and it feels like you’re talking to a very old friend even tho we’ve only known each other for few months. She told my friend that she thinks he can treat women well, and the reason she thinks that is long ago me and another friend of mine made some joke about someone while talking and this third friend didn’t indulge in it.

So although the compliment she gave him was nice, it felt like it was at our expense as if we didn’t know how to treat women well while he did.

i’ve been thinking about these remarks a bit and is there anything i can take from this that can improve my game and me as a person.