I have gone on dates with ten different girls since December. Three of them I ended up fucking but with the other seven I remain kinda confused. They disappear or go for the usual "We are different, can't really see us together in the future" -line which is obviously bs.

All of the dates pretty much go in a same way. Meet up at the bar or at my place. Talk shit, I go for touching and end up kiss closing when their body language looks like it. Kiss closing always goes well. The girls I have brought to my place usually have hard LMR and even when I withraw attention I usually can't fuck them on first date. Well anyway, at the end of the meeting girl usually tries to setup a new date and I'll them I'm kinda busy (which I am) and I'll tell them that I'll message when I'm free later on the week. I usually message them after waiting for 24-48 hours after the first date and try to setup a new date. After this I've got messages like "Sry, too busy" / "We are too different" / "I don't really see this thing going forward".

For example, last week this one girl was super into me, I was already taking her bra off when her LMR kicked off. "I'm on my period". She left with a smile, messaged me after the date and said she had a nice time, can't wait to see me again. I answered 24 hours later that I had a nice time as well, I have a time on Saturday, come to my place. She agreed. Yesterday when I went for the details she said that she is looking for something different to which I answered "Ok, see you around". After that she blocked me.

So my questions are

  1. Is my 30% successratio decent and I'm kinda overthinking here?
  2. If I'm not overthinking, am I doing something wrong? Should I setup a new date during first date? Should I message something bullshit between dates or just stay with the logistics texting? Am I pushing too much or too little? Am I making some other mistakes?
  3. Am I just not good enough for these girls

Nevertheless, going to keep lifting and improving myself by lifting and studying.

Thanks guys.