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[–]manifess 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So a girl told you to stay at her place in her bed you spooned and you didn't make a move!? Bruh....
[–]the_lone_deviant 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Tbh I tried but she pulled away. Plus I'm not as experienced as other guys in this sub
[–]manifess 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unless she's the biggest teas of all time I doubt she made you stay in her bed and spoon if she didn't want sex bro,
she couldn't of made it more obvious if she tried. only thing I can think of is that you should've kept on being persistent with it.
[–]hardcoreburritos 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s awesome to get to sleep close to someone like that—who knows where it goes tho she is obviously comfortable and feels safe with you.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Did you try to make a move??
If you tried at least twice and got rejected, then chalk it up to her playing hard to get.
I have stories of men much more skilled than I having this happen occasionally. One of them had it happen with a girl who later went on America's next top model. He laughs about it.
"She invited me back and we spooned, but I couldn't get her to even make out with me. Those yoga pants would NOT come off. Biggest blue balls I've ever had."
[–]ChicoBrillo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Hey man be happy. That’s still a nice experience. It’s not all about notches in your bedpost. Why do you think it isn’t possible to escalate?
[–]the_lone_deviant 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Don't want to lose what I have with her rn. Considering the fact we're in the same sort of circle and where I live is absolutely dead
[–]ChicoBrillo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Mmm. You prefer to stay friends? If that’s what you prefer than there’s not a problem right?
[–]the_lone_deviant 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
ahem not experienced here
[–]ChicoBrillo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Sorry I forgot you said you want to take it further. Would you want to date her or just hook up? Since you’re in a friend group I think it might be better to be direct and talk about it.
[–]the_lone_deviant 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well I can always try again. We're both going to a house party later
[–]ChicoBrillo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Im confused about what you want. If you guys spooned though, highly doubtful she just sees it as friendly. Could be. But probably not.
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