I've dated a girl 2d ago. It was a nice evening. By kissing her I took the game to the next stage.

But now I'm not sure what next steps I should take. For the moment I decided not to text/contact her. Here, I try to follow a "make yourself rare" strategy. But I'm not sure when to text her. On the one hand I want to be aloof (I think the guys here get what I mean) , on the other I find her really attractive... I really learnt that calm down for a moment makes men more attractive (even it is not very adult).

I thought about surprising her with coffee in the morning, but I'm sure if this right time already.

Any advice would be appreciated.