My situation is unusual. I'm married and me and my wife date other girls via Tinder. We had several 3somes and we recently slept with this girl who is not a 10, probably a 5 but extremely kinky (she is the only girl who likes to talk about sex instead of girl stuff), she is also very smart (pHD and veterinary). We always talked a lot via whatsapp and I really enjoyed. She started dating this guy from work and she started taking a lot of time to respond me, it was expected... I thought that she would stop talking to me but then she messaged me sometimes after dating the guy. She deleted the Tinder account and told me that she was trying to establish a relationship with the guy and it seemed that he was open to kinky stuff too but she would not mention anything soon. I think she messaged me a couple of times to seek validation but I responded too quickly, while she takes 1/2 days to respond (but she always respond). Is there a way to build attraction again? I know she cheated on her previous BF, so she is not a saint. I want to game her just for the sake of winning :) . Yesterday she sent me a message and said that she wanted to come with her new BF to get her scarf (she forgot here when we had the 3some), she said "we would have the opportunity to see him", it seems that she wanted to show off her prize but I was busy and the last minute thing irritated me (she sent a message around 11am saying that she would come at 2pm to pick it up). I said no and that I needed to know ahead of time. After that she said "happy Easter" and then I ignored. Should I reply in 2 days or just ignore? I know most people will say to move on and talk to other girls, but I truly want to game this shit. It's not just about the sex, but it became a game to me.

Note: I have been talking to 3 girls on whatsapp after getting their phones on Tinder and Redpill techniques are working like wonders.