We all know that the key to attraction is to demonstrate value, and we do this by presenting our most attractive traits to new women. However, doing this in succession and jumping from story to story can feel "off" to women, or even be found as an attempt to impress her. While we all have these stories, it can be difficult to move the conversation in a direction that would allow us to naturally present them. The solution: Lead-ins.

A lead-in is a way to lead to your stories, they'll help them come more naturally to the conversation. Many of us do this subconsciously or simply seek at opening in the conversation to present itself. However, they may not be enough time for this opportunity to come up, and the interaction may end before she's sufficiently interested. These are something that aren't stressed enough in the seduction community, you can have all the stories in the world, but without a way to organically weave them into the conversation, you won't find them of any use. With your DHV stories, I propose you create lead-ins for all of them.

Here's an example. In my work I'm often tasked with training new employees and getting them up to speed with the job. This presents me as someone capable of both leading men and showing my nurturing side. As a lead-in, I could ask her what she does for work, then I can ask her if she's ever had to train new people in her job. Then I can casually present my DHV. This lead-in works especially well since I can then use my DHV as a lead-in for what my job entails, i.e. how interesting it is or how skilled I am in it. Once that topic starts getting dry, I can use another lead-in to both keep the conversation fresh, and to increase my value even more. Another lead-in could be as simple as asking her about her weekend, then presenting mine as exciting and filled with friends, proving social calibration.

A good lead-in begins with a question about her life, making her more comfortable and having her enjoy the conversation, given that people love to talk about themselves. Then, when she finishes you can tell your side of the question, or more often, she'll ask you. In this way, you're not just telling her how great you are, she's asking you. And every question she has leads her to discovering more to your value. If every question she "asks" leads to you being presented as attractive, she'll assume your entire character is attractive. So go out and create a lead-in question for each of your stories, and begin incorporating them into your interactions.