Whenever I ask a woman on a date I just met whether online or offline, on the day of the planned date they say stuff like something came up, not feeling well. This is definitely not a coincidence. For example, I met a woman on pof and we talked on and off for about more than a week. She said she wasn’t comfortable exchanging numbers but was comfortable talking on facebook. We agreed more than twice that we’ll meet up for a starbucks date today (Saturday). So when I called her through the messenger app, she said she wasn’t feeling good but then she said that she doesn’t feel like putting on stuff and that she doesn’t want to go in sweat pants (Mind you in the messenger chat that she said she was having cramps but will feel better by the evening of the date). Don’t tell me this is a coincidence because it definitely isn’t. What should I have said or done to change the outcome of the date? Advice? Tips?