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asophie573 · 2021-10-29T21:57:26+00:00

Be honest and direct. Say it firmly even. I wanna be more than friends.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-10-30T14:04:45+00:00

The problem is you are indecisive and that’s a turn off

It’s like if she says we look like friends then you are like ok let’s be friends i guess and if she says she doesn’t want that then you are like ok let’s be more than friends…

Like make your mind up dude…

Why do you change your goals based on what she tells you? That’s just a huge turn off for girls.

Like have a clear definite goal and stick to it no matter what she says, and if she doesn’t like your goal then you forget her and i’m love o. but you don’t suddenly say ok i’ll change my goals if you dont like them and just be friends.. Like what the heck. NO!

Don’t be her friend, why on earth would you want that if you want something else. It’s eos the what you want or nothing at all, not either this or this other option as a second choice

And making a move?? Making moves is all about hitting on her, making sexual insinuations, telling her she is sexy, and going for a kiss. It’s not about asking her to be your girlfriend or shit like that if you haven’t first kissed and hookup

KingAJ032304 · 2021-11-06T00:58:12+00:00

She was probably complaining that you guys are being too platonic and not flirting enough and you weren't making moves. Just being straightforward and assertive about being sexual/romantic/whatever in this relationship.

asophie573 · 2021-10-30T16:48:06+00:00

Please let me know. I hope everything works out for you!

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