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[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
How tall are you?
[–]throwawayofc1112 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Around 6’2. I’m a big guy, about 220 lbs. Similar body type to Ricky from trailer park boys if that gives an idea
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bro you’re 6’2, just workout, be athletic and getting girls will be easy
[–]throwawayofc1112 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I workout a few times a week. I’ve been lifting weights since I was pretty young, and I’m pretty active but heavyset. I think I’m gonna start watching my diet a little more carefully. I just feel like I’m faking it a lot of the time with girls. I fear rejection so much because of my narcissism.
[–]bewareoftheogre 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
what does it have to do with anything?
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being tall makes you more confident
[–]burgermei5ter 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean you’ve pointed out everything wrong with you in this post right here. You should read your own words every day and learn to catch yourself. But if you want seduction skills before you’ve achieved general social skills then I think you’re putting the cart before the horse.
1.) Put down the booze. Or just hold a drink and sip on it. I get aggressive/weird when I get drunk too so I just don’t get drunk. Smart men don’t do things that make them look stupid. And getting drunk/buzzed to talk to girls needs to stop. You’re awkward? So what. Your current approach sure as hell doesn’t work so better awkward than acting like an ass.
2.) Just stop talking. At least for now. There’s that mark Twain quote where it’s better to let people think you’re stupid than to open your mouth and remove all doubt. If you have decent looks then just shut the fuck up and be a listener instead of a talker. Ask questions. Be humble and quiet. It doesn’t have to last forever, but first you need to just stop talking so you can find your cues when to chime in. And even then your input needs to be short.
Look, man, you are what you do. If you lie a lot you’re a liar. If you cheat a lot you’re a cheater. Before hitting on girls or becoming a social butterfly you need to be a better person, one day at a time. I didn’t get laid till I was 21. It took me learning how to just own it when someone makes fun of me and working on myself before success with women entered the picture.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Therapy
[–]Main-Willingness1140 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I hate types like you. This is probably the case for most people too.
The only solution to this problem is meditation.
Because meditation is effective for impulsive and narcissists. This has been scientifically proven.
In fact, you probably haven't meditated in your life. right?
OKAY, That's the cause.
I don’t blame you, a lot of people hate me, and it’s taken me awhile to come to the realization that it’s my fault, not anyone else’s . I’ve done meditation a little bit here and there, but only because it was part of a class I was taking at the time. I enjoyed it I suppose, but at this point it’s a matter of fitting it into my schedule.
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