I saw a post on here where someone was asking about how to get women to come over to their place (with consent, of course). Truly, it's not necessarily a hard thing to do, but feeling comfortable doing it is a whole other thing.

In this video, I go over 5 ways to invite women over that have worked for me (note: per Reddit rules, there is no advertising of any kind in this video):

https://youtu.be/h0EoklfcpRY

One thing I wanted to go over in detail here, though, is this: as much as us men may get in our heads about when it's appropriate to ask women back to our place, or how comfortable we need to get them, understand that any woman who has dated for an extended period of time also has a time line in her head of how all this stuff usually works.

I have found that, on average, most women are usually expecting a man to ask them to his place by date 2 or 3. Does this mean they will always accept the invitation at that time? Nope! Is it highly likely it will happen? Yep!

Regardless, the answer she gives isn't important as much as how you REACT to her answer. Once I got good at dating I became indifferent to most outcomes. Meaning: if I invite a woman back to my place and she agrees? "Cool." If I invite her back to my place and she says she's not ready? "Cool." In either case, my answer is hella nonchalant - my focus is on making sure she has a good time with me, whether that includes going back to my place or not.

That said, offering the invite is still important, as it lets her know you're thinking about her in a sexual way. You have to give off the vibe to her that you're not afraid to be sexual (or worse, that you're asexual), and giving the invite back to your place is one of the important ways to do that.