Hi! So I have this issue which bothers me a bit. I tend to always - somehow, apparently - get a girl to ghost me and lose interest, and I’m convinced this is because of something I write to them when I’m tired.

I’m often busy, and this past week have had 12-hour worksdays, where I don’t have time nor energy to write a proper/funny/interesting response till night.

I don’t know. Either I ask them out too early, and they vanish; or I keep talking w them, and they vanish. It’s very typical that the previous message from them (that I respond to) is one really telling me they are having fun and still interested (w. the emojis one wants to see), and then after a response (which I look at after, and don’t see the weird about), they just vanish. I’m very tired of this!

So I just wanna ask; how do YOU manage to keep a girl engaged when your mind is running on low fuels, and you have to respond because you don’t wanna respond +1 day after she herself responds only 2hrs after. Thanks