Background: last week Sunday I met up with this girl off Hinge, we had a coffee (which she paid for) and then went on a hike trail. At the end of the trail before heading back, we made out and I was grabbing her ass and thighs. We walked back to her car and made out more, before moving to the backseat where we made out even more and I started kissing and caressing her breasts and fingering her. She started wanting to grab my penis but I moved away because I wasn’t getting hard (for reasons I still don’t know). She was annoyed because she thought I wasn’t attracted to her or wasn’t enjoying it but I tried reassuring her that’s not it. Nonetheless, the next day I n Monday we meet again at night at the park (both live 5 minutes away from each other walking distance) and throughout the night we’re talking and start making out frequently and did the same thing we did in the car but in the open space at the park (fingering her, sucking on her breasts). At the end of the night she asks me if I’m looking for anything serious and I don’t really indicate I am but also didn’t explicitly state that I’m not, and she was hoping to hear I was. The next day Tuesday she messaged me saying she thinks we’re both looking for two different things, to which I said this is something better to discuss in person. We made plans to meet up Wednesday to which I was unable to meet due to working late. I asked her if we can meet Thursday and she said she will let me know as she works late Thursday. We end up not meeting on any of these days. Friday comes by and we message very little, then at 10:30pm she messaged me asking if I’m free, however I didn’t respond right away so she was already home ready for bed. Saturday comes by and I ask her to meet Sunday for ice cream, she says she might be busy Sunday evening. At Saturday at night she messaged me asking if I’m free but I was out with my friends. On Sunday she asks if I’m free in the afternoon, but I wasn’t and she was busy in the evening. I told her to enjoy her evening. Now, at 10pm on Sunday I messaged her to let her know if she’s home early from her outing and would like to hang out to let me know. I got no response from her, and all of Monday passed by and still no response.

Is it bad if I double text her? I like this girl and would like to go out more - she doesn’t have iMessage but rather regular texts and I’m thinking maybe she didn’t receive my text since it’s via SMS, but I know that’s the Beta in me speaking.

I’m thinking how can this girl go from asking me to hang out 3 days in a row to not responding to my message to her???