Or even approaching a woman for that matter. The woman that I have been with have mainly flirted with me. I don’t consider myself a bad looking guy and I do work on myself and try to show confidence so I get women without actually doing the work. I hate that I can’t take the initiative though, or know what to say at all. I work around some very attractive women that I can’t approach and I wish I could go to places where I can find them without locking up and never going inside from total fear.