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[–]Stujitsu2 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Start using the phone only to set in person meetings. Stop being her pen pal. Im fact go silent for 5-7 days to fix the damage you've done. The most non-needy non-clingy thing you can say is nothing.
Texting and talking on phone is to set up meetings. You can't touch her, you can't read her body language. You sure as hell can't be mysterious being her pen pal.
Wait 5-7 days then say when are you free to get together for X?
Great, Friday at 6. Do you want to meet me there or prefer I pick you up? Get/give address accordingly. Know where you are taking her.
[–]Stujitsu2 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Forgot to address the other question. No ground rules. It makes you seem jealous which is a symptom of insecurity the great attraction killer. You do not own her. You need to make her want you to be her choice.
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[–]Stujitsu2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The invention of the phone is the worst thing to happen to men. Minimize it
The best way to not seem needy is to not be needy. Which you are or you wouldn't be worried.
[–]ORIONFULL23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Leave on seen doubled time that she leaves you
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