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[–]Key-Concentrate-94 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
As long as you're respectful and nice you can't go wrong. Just don't cross the line and start getting touchy. Say something like "hey ladies, im (your name) how's your beach day going? What are your names? How's the water? Where are you two from?" Just try to engage, be attentive to their response to keep the convo going. Share your own life experiences. If they're funny experiences even better, laugh and enjoy yourself. Then ask for a number/snap/etc, and if the convo went well enough you can ask to chill later in the day. Be easy man, you got this, you're not a bother to anyone if you are nice. Its normal to talk to others and fun tbh. Good luck, you'll do great and even if you don't its good practice.
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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They might be international
[–]Key-Concentrate-94 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then use body language, or just wave at them. Anything is better than nothing. I'm sure they'll recognize instantly why you're waving. And who cares of your family is there. You have to reproduce just like they did lol.
[–]ORIONFULL23 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Approach them Approach them!!!! Women are more open to get approached while in vacation, just read their body language and make a move
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[–]ORIONFULL23 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't even need to know the language, get close and try to communicate, ask something and add that you're learning ( don't worry about your broken Turkish) if they are open, they will help you to communicate, and if they not, thats your sign to walk away.
[–]cukubix 4 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link
Turkish culture and turkish girls is not so great for cold approaches but there some turkish guys claim that they do with that being said turkish girls like foreigner guys idk why but they kind of think they are supperior in some ways compared to turkish guys i guess?(mostly looks) Just dont be pushy go try to strike a conversation bu if they are uncomfortable or unresponsive just dont push your luck otherwise you might get called for harassment and in extreme cases some nearby guys fill fuck you up
[–]cukubix 4 years ago [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link
And since you are a foreigner you might get away with hitting up or being slightly pushy or creepy so don't be so scared
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Im Turkish myself 😅. Just live in germany
[–]cukubix 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Bruh
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What? 😂
[–]cukubix 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Birader sıçtın ozaman son zamanlarda gurbetçilere karşı fena bir nefret artışı var bol şans
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Can you keep writing English. And why are they hating us?
I thought you were immigrated to germany but now i assume youre born and raised in germany right? İf thats the case then there is little to no problem The hating part is about the turkish people who live in germany(in good conditions i mean economic situation much much worse in turkey obviously) that visits turkey from time to time for holidays and what not and whenever they get a chance they shit on germany or european countries for being "bad" "jealous of turkey" "not like turkey" "people are cold and distant" "they live in agony because they miss turkey" "turkey is a paradise compared to germany" and so on oh also they always like hundred percent love the current president and support him even tho not living here. Obviously these are bullshit and makes our blood boil since the socioeconomic situations in turkey are fucked up, also these stupid statements begs the question "then why the fuck you live in germany if it is so bad why dont you come back to turkey if you miss it so much, if it is so much better?" That is why turkish people hate "gurbetçiler", because they are both delusional and hypocritical. Also they get to vote even tho they dont live in this fuckin mess of a country and guess who they vote to :))))
Yeah im born in germany and raised there. I actually agree with you. I think it's really bullshit the people in germany can vote for turkey. Like it makes no sense. There is many shit wrong with erdogan. But I don't live in turkey nor do I know how the situation actually is or how I would find it to be. I dont vote because of that. I generally don't vote anywhere.
And honestly I have to say Back then when I was like 14 or so I said the same shit. Turkey is so much better/I miss it /i dont feel welcome in germany /bla bla bla. Bunch of bullshit honestly.
Now that im older I completely cringe about what I said. Its completely disrespectful for the Turks who live in turkey and the Germans who treat us well here and accept us. I know I live good in germany and im thankful for it. A lot.
Sry you have to listen to the shit of some of the Turks in germany. And also sry they vote for your ass there.
Tbh some of the Turkish people in germany are generally pretty fucking weird. They act all nationalist and so strong and hard and tuff and like they are thr biggest bosses it's sometimes so shit. They affect us "normal" Turks as well in germany. They act like duchess to a point where German people especially girls have many preconceptions towards turks. I actually like German girls as a preference so thats shit....
I talked to one. Her dad actually forbid her to bring a turk back as a boyfriend everything is ok expect turks.
[–]cukubix2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
And language barrier is real you cant speak turkish and many (%80) turkish people cant speak english, they might understand what you say but still dont expect them to even form simple sentences so probably that will be a big problem +1points if youre italian other than that whether youre from usa or any europian country does not matter
[–]no_not_this 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry man if your asking this on Reddit you have no hope. I’m prepared to get downvoted. Whatever. What anyone tells you here doesn’t matter because you won’t be smooth trying to follow a script. Your 18. It’s time to talk to girls and learn by trial and error. Well it was time 4 years ago but better start today. Just go strike up a convo and fail. Until you don’t fail anymore
[–]LightAtEnd 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Where in turkey? Antalya?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Around that corner yes
[–]LightAtEnd 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Hard to do anything when your family is around.
Might be awkward for the girls, if your family is watching.
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[–]LightAtEnd 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Go on the beach alone, and do some approaches.
You will not see those girls ever again,if you fuck up badly, so what? Noone will know in your city.
[–]Michael3329 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes
[–]Michael3329 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just do it You will only fail if you sexually assault them Everything else is normal Seperate from your family to relive the uneccessary stress Practice Even if u embarras urself you will never see anyone on that beach again in your life, but you will have overcame your fear Try to purposefully emberass yourself to other girls, you will see that even when worst shit happens you will still be alive. That experience will make you let go of fear
[–]Safe-Investigator271 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
go up its better than doing nothing and kicking yourself
[–]Michael3329 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is just a test for you. If you fail you will emberras yourself in front of your family. If you succeed, it is just a fun time. In that kind of situation, approach them if you know you can be comfortable. If not, then its ok. Girls come and go. You are just temporarly amazed by that one girl. It will pass by. Whatever happens it will suck. If you dont try you will regret it because you like her . If you try you might fail. If you try you might succeed. Generally girls are nice even if they dont like you. They wont make a scene. Girls are friendly to decent guy because they rarely get approached so they will be happy and have fun time as long as you dont do something stupid like grabbing their ass 1 minute into conversation. That is the only thing that would really emberass you. Sorry for my english Good luck God bless Life is a game, you never know when you win or lose Do your best and accept the outcome
[–]NDC03 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They into you or even just chatty. It will work.
They not into you, it will become an awkward silent stare contest. Back away slowly without turning your back while making loud nosie. Look as big as possible. Works for bears. Should work for women as well?
You are seriously ugly. Prepare your statement for the police. Not sure how hardcore muslim is turkey but you might want to look into a helmet for the stoning.
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