How do I just stop caring when a girl gives me attention

Therocksays2020 · 2021-08-05T07:28:38+00:00

What are they posting about you on their story? Your post made little sense

TeamJimmySmooth · 2021-08-05T07:38:13+00:00

We live in a mirroring universe my friend. It affects you because you’ve attached your worth to how women react to you. Self worth must come from self. It sounds like you should spend some time looking inward and asking yourself why do you feel this way- “why is my worth attached to what others think instead of what I think?” Then, when you figure that out, start spending time doing things that make you feel valuable- but don’t forget that value comes from what you can give, not what you can take. This is why it’s so important to focus on yourself so you can find the thing that makes you special. Your “genius level talent” so to speak. Maybe you can draw. Maybe you’re a great soccer player. Maybe you’re good with numbers and finance. Who knows? The only way to find that out is by following your gut about what interests you and trying things until you find your… well, thing lol. And when you find it, try to find a way to use your gifts to help others. This will make you feel valuable in a way I can’t describe.

I say all that to say this- when you focus on your self you find all the wonderful things about you. And you come to peace with some bad things about you, too. And a man like that is irresistible. You’ll have so much attention you won’t know what to do with it. And the most important thing? You won’t care. You’ll be so caught up in your own growth and helping others that you won’t even give a shit about anything else… Which makes you even MORE irresistible.

You got this, Champ. I’m rooting for you.

And don’t forget to do your pull ups.

-Phoenix

Edit: typo. Haha.

Title	How do I just stop caring when a girl gives me attention
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	2
Date	August 5, 2021 7:22 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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