I've been talking to a guy for two weeks now that originally started as a one night stand. We've now slept together around 4 times since and had two dates, the second one occured last weekend. One date we went out for drinks and on the second date we stayed in since he was feeling unwell from his vaccine shot.

We've been asking alot of questions about each other and learning alot when we see each other and he has excitedly wanted to tell me all about his current career goals. Our second date lead to sex that night which was so good and he stayed over afterwards.

I'm also still not 100% sure where his head is at in terms of if he wants just sex or seeing where this is going. He has been very interested in getting to know me more by asking questions about my life, family, past experiences with school and growing up.

On our second date he mentioned people he knows that are in open relationships and told me that he doesn't think that's for him and he only really wants monogomy.

Is this actually interested or just still wanting to hook up?