I’m not very successful with girls in college. Will things be better for me post-grad?

B_E_5 · 2018-04-15T01:26:27+00:00

If you put in the work, it doesn't matter what you do, where you go, things will get better.

Right now, you are doing some things wrong, the more you practice and approach and learn the more you will realize what those things are.

Keep it up, I feel like now at 36 I am at a very high point in my game and see very little competition. It isn't really my build, my attractive face helps. I'm 5'11" and I don't really earn a whole lot, but I am shockingly enjoyable to interact with.

Everyone I choose to speak with finds it appealing and I find any setting comfortable. You have to push yourself to go places you haven't, do things you haven't.

You need to become the master of as many of your things as you can and really own those things. Being a strong teacher or councilor and leader create the sort of female magnet you desire in your life.

Do not think they magically appear, you need to find your demographic, you need to know the women that melt for you so well that you can almost feel it like a spider sense.

I suggest trying them all, the mediocre girls, the ones that are a little heavier, as long as they are into different things, or into things you are into.

There is just too much to learn from hands on experience. I have a feeling you are 'saving yourself' for incredible hotties.

The HB8's and 9's want a man that has done it all and knows every side of his world. They want a rock they can emotionally smash against.

alpha-zach · 2018-04-15T01:32:12+00:00

Theoretically, no. You have to improve your game. But in reality you will naturally develop additional SMV from your age and successes, so you’ll see a bump there.

Will things be easier? Absolutely not. Will they be better? Maybe, if you don’t fuck things up. Definitely, if aim to better yourself.

Title	I’m not very successful with girls in college. Will things be better for me post-grad?
Author	B_E_5
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	April 15, 2018 1:14 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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