Hi all,

I made a post last week explaining that I got the IG of a girl at the bar and the number of the other. Realized the girl who gave me her IG wasn't my type but the one who's number I got definitely was, so I hit up her and got a date for this night.

Took a short train ride to her city (a ride I make often, not expensive or anything) and met her at the station. We went to a nearby bar and ordered some drinks, when all of a sudden the waiter hands us some bingo cards. We were surprised but both found out that we're pretty competitive so we had a good time. Ordered more drinks and played until they stopped bingo. Got along pretty well and had some good flirting. We got pizza after a few hours and sat at the pier together, really close to each other. Ate our food and chatted, then I went in for the kiss. It was well received for a bit but we were on the side of a sidewalk with people walking by and other people nearby so I suggested we move further in the pier to get some privacy. Found a spot but a homeless person was sleeping on the bench there so we moved to a different one.

Made out a bit more, then I made a mistake by suggesting we move again since we were right next to the street where people were walking by. It felt like a switch flipped and her attitude changed, to which she then made a comment that she needed to get home soon. Earlier we had agreed that I would walk her home but I got the signal that she didn't want me to anymore. I said that I had fun and that we should do this again to which she agreed and told me when she'd be back from vacation, and we hugged and she said goodbye. I made mistake #2 by needing some confirmation and texted her asking if everything was good since she seemed a bit tense at the end, to which there was no response. I'm going to wait until her vacation is over to give it another shot, but even if I messed it all up at the end, it was still a fun night.

My thoughts/reflections:

-I think that by making these mistakes and being cognizant of them, I'm getting better at game. This girl was undoubtedly the most attractive girl I've ever had on a date/kissed, so I feel like the sky is the limit on how well I can do. I'm somewhat limited in my opportunities due to me being at home for the year while I apply for med school, but even in the event I don't close anything, it's good practice for when I get my own place.

-Neediness/validation is an issue. It's annoying that part of the game is not being needy at all, otherwise risking everything falling apart. This isn't the first time my neediness has ruined something (not to undoubtedly say that this is ruined), but I'm getting better at controlling it. Would definitely appreciate it if someone with experience could let me know if they agree with me that my neediness was what changed up things and any tips on how to proceed.

Thanks for reading, have a good night brothers 🤙