I went to a bank I never go to and I'm in construction clothes with a tie dye bandana. I assumed people would think I'm gay especially for the area I live in. So I wasnt prowling and I was also focused on my money. I over drew my only liqiud account and had no access to the rest of my money so I went to a secondary bank for my back up cash

And the teller at the bank gave solid cues of interest and I played off them well and finally when the transaction finished I made it clear I was done with the conversation. she said have a good day I smirked and said you too.

If I'm not looking for a plate, I have a hard time reacting to initiative women. I'm a slow thinker, and some days I have it or I don't. From what I've read in trp, the first interaction is the time to go. But I don't want to not try for her number, just because I made a mistake of not closing the first time. I believe by leaving on my own term I showed abundance and confidence in my self as a masculine male in a tye dye bandanna, which was the goal in wearing it.

My question is, is it really a waste of time and how would I approach a women if I'm purposely showing up to get her number? My biggest problem is that I don't believe making a dedicated visit shows abundance, but I don't want to use her job as an excuse because that shows a lack of confidence.

I usually call it a loss or forget but I feel like , I'm hurting my cold approach skills by leaving it alone.