Hi everyone,

I'd to open this space to discuss: where does the game take us?

This sub teaches us to be confidant and seductive, and that is great. But I'd be curious to know what people make of it all, in the end.

Most people, it feels like, eventually end up in longer term relationships. If you have married, how did you know? Did the person match some image you already had of the ideal mate, or did they come in and blow you away? Or was it more tempered, is marriage rather a question of sticking to one good relationship amongst many and then choosing to make it work? Did dating however many people help or hinder you in that search?

Or, are there some here who intend date long term and to live a bachelor life?

Have others maybe come to some sort of middle ground, or have you come to different arrangements altogether?

Ultimately the idea is this : what's the balance that you've found in your romantic life, or hope to find?

I know there are many questions here; I invite any one to address as many or as few of these as they please. Also, don't be afraid to discuss even if you don't have much experience, or haven't yet reached the be all end all relationship, if there even is such a thing.

Cheers