What would happen if you were honest all the time?

Foreverbutlikenever · 2021-06-27T07:11:18+00:00

If you get upset too easily, she’ll loose attraction because thats annoying. You owe people the truth but you don’t have to say everything if its not beneficial.

getmeoffthisplanet9 · 2021-06-27T07:26:47+00:00

This type of honesty is what I give and typically or almost always meet resistance on. Raw honesty is not for the faint of heart. And it isn’t for those who live a lie whether consciously or subconsciously. So the truth definitely could result in lashing out or projections based off of ego reactions. However, it’s that being said, I find a lot of courage and strength in someone willing to be completely vulnerable by speaking the truth. Shows me also the integrity that person holds for themselves and others. Even if I’m on the receiving end and having to hear something hard to hear I value that part of the person that chose the right thing to do rather than the easier and typically self serving option. That level of honesty between two people creates an unbreakable connection. If you share the deepest parts of yourself with someone and they still stand next to you in life, then you have truly been blessed with the greatest gift life has to offer. That shits priceless!

CognitiveTaco · 2021-06-27T07:16:58+00:00

IMO, A......at least in my age group (18-25). IMO, never tell a girl how you feel before she does. People are attracted to what they can’t have. This is why being toxic works so well, especially for girls with daddy issues. It’s a paradox of sorts. You’re with them already but you’re also distant and act like you don’t care or would leave at any moment which keeps the attraction for you strong. The second you show that they have you on lockdown then they are bored and lose interest because they have you already. So in conclusion, you have to be unavailable to them while being available to them. Once you move up into the higher age groups where people are seriously ready to settle down it’s a different story. People aren’t looking to play around. They’re ready to get to business so being more upfront while not being completely transparent is usually a better move.

watermelonspraycan · 2021-06-27T17:51:32+00:00

Use DBT Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills ("I think"/"I feel" statements), and honesty deepens relationships and preserves your sanity. Keep it focused on how their behavior is affecting you. If you're mindful of how you're framing/phrasing what you're being honest about, there's pretty much nothing you need to hold back.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-06-27T19:47:28+00:00

If I were completely honest all the time I would soon be unemployed, friendless, fuckless, and probably in a coffin or a prison honestly.

I’d be surprised if it weren’t the same for most people

SubstantialWill2760 · 2021-06-27T22:30:01+00:00

Lol I would probably get shot

Title	What would happen if you were honest all the time?
Author	TedTheBear258
Upvotes	10
Comments	6
Date	June 27, 2021 7:06 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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