Some context, i’m a fairly good looking guy in his 20s and I want to improve my game.
I just got hired for the summer at this small company in my field of study. Cool job that I really enjoy.
So, I met this girl at work about 2 weeks ago and she instantly grabbed my attention with her looks (blonde, blue eyes); just really my type. She works in the office just beside mine.
One day I decided to have lunch at the same time as her (she eats a little bit later than me) so I could chat her up. Everything is going great I ask a lot about her and she reacts well.
Keep in mind shes more of an introvert and enjoy time alone quite a bit (as she told me) I usually only have 30 min with her cause I have to get back to work. Fast forward to three days later, its really sunny outside and she asks me if I want to join her to have lunch outside (this is a good sign considering her personality) We have a great time, she laughs a lot and near the end I summon my courage and ask for her number in a somewhat clever way (kinda messed up the delivery but anyways)
She then blushes and start smiling to me as if she was waiting for this. She says : " I don’t have a boyfriend but… I’ve been messaging this guy in another country a lot and its pissing me off cause nothing will ever happen because he lives so far away " I then tell her to take it as a compliment and she says that it means a lot to her coming from me. I then return to work thinking I fucked up big time even though I usually like letting girls know my intentions pretty early on.
Here is what’s keeping my interest:
I stalked her a bit (i know creepy but its helping me gather good info) and I noticed she just added a playlist the day after on spotify with a blushing emoji as the image and something similar as the title. She even added a song explicitely about a guy asking for the number of a girl
How should I proceed?
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