I don't remember the post word for word but I'll try to phrase it to the best of my memory. " You should have the mindset, when approaching a girl, of you are offering something super exciting. Imagine you bust open your dorm room at college to see your buddies with some free pizza you got, they'd be ecstatic." This struck a cord with me for some reason. When I first heard this, it reminded me of the time back in my early college years when I would offer free weed to my friends ( I would smoke them down with my own nug). They would always be super attentive and have a shit eating grin when they saw me make the, "blaze" hand signal. Recently, I have been switching this mentality over to approaching/socializing.

Combining this idea with my 4 years of intense, consistent weight training and lean bulking, my results have decently improved since I was 18 (23 now). I start conversations a lot more, no matter where I am or who they are. Why wouldn't she want to talk to this tall, buff guy with stunning curly hair? That'd be an exciting part of her day. Me starting to own my body, its helped me become comfortable with the idea of not every girl has to give me attention. With that original post, it's help me to shape my perspective a bit. I'm the one who must provide value to the interaction, and I can start working on that now.

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Btw, when I was 18, I was a rail (135lbs) at 6ft tall with nothing but negative responses from most women. At 23, I'm now slim toned at 185lbs with 85-90% of that being muscle (my waist size has not changed since I was in high school). I now see way more signals and most women are very receptive to an initial approach.

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So whoever wrote that comment, that analogy is like a gem for me. Such a rare but productive insight. Even though nothing in the dating realm has changed, my ability to start conversations has improved so much. Thank you.