I don’t know how to flirt, so I just offer myself up immediately- is that normal?

2021-06-15T08:39:03+00:00

Depends upon the guy, some guys find it creepy some guys find it hot.

Either way I would always do your best to practice caution.

There is nothing wrong with being straightforward and having no subtlety.

You want what you want there's nothing wrong with that.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-06-15T08:40:54+00:00

And why I never swiped u right.. my poor destiny

GrandRub · 2021-06-15T08:46:38+00:00

I do like to take a more forward approach to cut around the fluff and be upfront, I think if i’m going to get rejected(which happens, it’s the hard part of dating) I met as well approach people in the most genuine and respectable way…by trying and not pussyfooting around by flirting. The only problem I see here is you two work together, and I know he says he’s consenting and okay with it, but what if he wasn’t? That’s something you need to try and think a little bit more about when going about this. I think touching and being SO sexually forward can be awkward if they’re not receptive. It’s good he likes you, but you should be careful with what you do at work because you’re on the clock and something could happen and if someone isn’t privy to it it could be bad. Always air on the side of caution, but there’s nothing wrong with being forward and honest about feelings and intentions.

GrandRub · 2021-06-15T09:27:49+00:00

It’s so unexpected for someone in offering myself to so vulgarly, to then treat me with the same kindness they had before I invited them between My legs. E

why is that unexpected? it isnt an insult for a man if a women is very direct and says that he is hot... you make it sound like he should be angry or hate you cause you think he is hot.

Title	I don’t know how to flirt, so I just offer myself up immediately- is that normal?
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Upvotes	4
Comments	6
Date	June 15, 2021 8:36 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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