This is something I'm beginning to realise the further along in this journey I get. People will keep themselves in the place they are right now through the endless search for how they can achieve their goals, all the while time passes, nothing changes and they continue along the same path.

There isn't an answer to what you are searching for.

The answer lies within you and as long you are searching you will never allow that answer to present itself. It is you who decides how you act around women, you are not broken or inferior, you are not missing a piece of information which will complete you.

How many of us have stifled how we act around women we are attracted to and not listened to our natural desires? Maybe it's a girl who we saw at a bar and we'd love to go talk to but we choose not to. We choose to restrict the version of ourself which is naturally being presented.

You know how to act, you know what to do, you know what to say.

And until you realise that, you won't get anywhere, until you realise that you hold the answers to your own questions, you will continue on this endless search. This is paradoxically the simpliest but hardest thing to do, to break the cycle and do in the moment. To believe that your natural inclinations are to be trusted, listened to and acted upon.