Went out for the 1st time. Kind of discouraged. (X-post)

cornelljw · 2021-06-06T08:32:13+00:00

Props to going out solo. Keep doing it and you will be more comfortable being alone. Go to places that is your scene where you like the atmosphere.

OldRetiredDood · 2021-06-06T12:27:47+00:00

Bro, what you have described is totally normal. Now, you just need to refine your strategy. It will take a lot of time so don't rush things.

loofyd · 2021-06-06T15:55:00+00:00

I went out alone for the first time to 6th street in Austin, a huge nightlife spot. Never been to a bar or nightclub before. Walked into a couple of bars and had some brief convos with some people, but that was it. I didn’t drink if that matters.

you should be thanking your stars you can go out at night clubs and bars

i can't even have a night life due to bitchy rules where i live

this was your first time , try making some friends or even approaching guys who look cool to make casual friends - social circle is a good handyman

also , this was your first time out - try going out for a month , probably two before you decide

i wish i could go to some night bars and night clubs - no drinking , just a good few glasses of water - but i would definitely flirt with a girl or even two girls in a group , just to get some practice and gain some social confidence !

Title	Went out for the 1st time. Kind of discouraged. (X-post)
Author	fridayismyfavsong21
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	June 6, 2021 5:19 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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