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[–]dasanman69 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It's been scientific proven that women are attracted to guys whose feelings are unclear. You over communicated and made it way too easy for her. Women like the men that they have to work for and you handed everything to her on a platter she lost attraction for you.
[–]BlueMango55 5 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Fuck.
[–]BlueMango55 5 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Can this be fixed in any way
[–]dasanman69 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You need to familiarize yourself with Corey Wayne . I know you want to invest in her but only do so when she is investing in you as well.
[–]BlueMango551 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
How do i know if shes investing in me??
[–]billy_chiu_101 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Man you just talked yourself into friend zone, she likes your attention, but talking to a girl all the time isn’t gonna attract her, you need sexual tension, just tell her you really like her and you’re not looking for a friend, then ask her on a date, if she’s not down, move on
That was my plan bro but we have a lockdown in our place due to the pandemic and I wasnt able to do that....how do I bring about the sexual tension 😭
[–]billy_chiu_101 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You can’t unless you see her in person, stop talking to her, you can’t feel her hair or smell her perfume through the phone, what’s the point? Try ask her out again after lockdown
Makes sense thanks bro
[–]cyrusol 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Honest view? She's pretty stupid, being all that dishonest to herself about how she feels about you - because nobody in their right mind would stay up until 4 AM in a video call just because the talk is nice - but you can't change that in any way. Move on.
Yeah I mean exactly thats what I thought both of us have online college to attend to at 8 the next day yet she stays up till 4 but says she isn't interested in dating but idk man she replies to texts also instantly you know like no games and stuff idk she seems like a really nice person to let go off...
[–]justathoughtt123wild 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you friendzoned yourself by doing what you did with her for 10 days. move on to the next chick, dont make the mistake ever again. dont be nice to girls like that. the sooner you realize, the less heartbreaks you are gonna go through.
I will keep this in mind thankyou
[–]Cindersxo 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She just likes your attention. She's either not ready to pursue another relationship (might have been hurt in the past and she's scared to lose control over this relationship with you and be hurt again), or just doesn't want it because she wants to play around a bit longer. If you want her to start having any stronger feelings for you, you should ignore her, be colder/oblivious in your messages, reply after a few hours or the next day, but... is it really worth acting like someone you're clearly not? It looks to me like you're fairly mature and ready to enter a relationship with another human being. She's not. It's started with some problems, being with her may only bring more problems to the plate - that's just how it goes. Also, she seems amazing and super interesting, not because she necessarily is, but only because she's "hard to get" and that's the impact it all has on you - pure psychology. I know it'll be hard but I'd just probably end it now because you know what you want and she's not IT.
I dont think shes playing hard to get tbh...but heab everything else you said was true is there and psychological way i can get her to start having feelings for me,?
[–]Cindersxo 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
She started playing hard to get when she "rejected" you and said she's not interested in starting any relationship while at the same time taking away loads of your time - bit of mixed messages going on here, don't you think? I think it's one of the reasons why you've gone nuts for her. She seems immature and if you want to get to her you need to start acting immature too, which is what I wrote in my message above - start ignoring her a little bit, appear colder in your texts, don't show you're extra excited to hear from her, just okay with it... It's silly advice but I'm a girl and this is the best way to win over an immature girl. Before you do it, ask yourself a question, if you really want it. She will most probably bring more problems into that relationship later on.
Fuck. You just opened my mind up.
[–]Hayden_Beroc 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
don't take this the wrong way but you my friend from the internet that i don't know is just a "dancing monkey" to her. But i'll give actionable to you advice next you start video call or talking to her tell her that you just saw a photo of her and tells her now you cannot stop picturing her naked in your mind. Go from there and tell why is that happening lol
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