Should you say you are interested even if you cant have a conversation with the girl?

Titan_Astraeus · 2021-05-18T16:28:22+00:00

Yea this part of things always confuses me. They might even say they are interested or that they've just been busy lately. Maybe they just don't like texting. But seems most people will just let things flounder rather than say some uncomfortable truth. If it's someone you know a bit, or really you might as well do it either way cause nothing to lose, just tell them what you think and see what they have to say. But yea like others said, at some point whether they're indifferent or behave different than you wish if it doesn't work for you sometimes have to step away/back.

textile1957 · 2021-05-18T16:52:56+00:00

With the way dating is today the best advice I can give you is this: act like you just want to be friends. Girls are easily repelled when a guy seems more interested in them than they are of the guy. Let the girl think it was their idea to date you. Talk to multiple girls, that'll keep you from putting all your eggs in one basket, women know when all your eggs are in one basket, don't act like a doormat, have opinions and dislikes like you do with your normal friends, go on dates with these women, minimize texting and tell them very little about you over text. If you texting them only discuss where/when to meet and when you do give them very little information about yourself and focus alot on them telling you about them. Let them get to know you slowly on dates, that way you'll be intriguing and it will allow her to learn about your positive traits until she inevitably learns that you have certain personality traits she dislikes. If you do this, she will know more positive things about you/your personality than the negative

It's about finding a balance between falling into the friendzone and showing just enough interest to not scare her/them away. There's this thing where people keep saying to "be yourself" and "find someone who's interested", that type of advice will work if you're in your 40s and 50s. Being yourself and fully open to someone who's a stranger hoping that they like you will never work, let people slowly get to know you and you'll be spoiled for choice

Title	Should you say you are interested even if you cant have a conversation with the girl?
Author	Fausto2002
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	May 18, 2021 3:15 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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