Become the leader of your male friends

4thAndLong · 2018-04-20T19:00:32+00:00

Be more assertive.

Make group decisions.

Be useful (intelligent, handy, reliable).

Metalgear222 · 2018-04-20T19:40:43+00:00

Have experience that qualifies you to make decisions.

If you do not have that experience, you have to ride in the back seat until you do.

[deleted] · 2018-04-21T00:16:46+00:00

Don't go down the route of constantly trying to frame test your friends to show them who's boss.

Bad idea, just try to set up social activities yourself and you'll naturally be seen as the leader.

zaydpt · 2018-04-21T02:11:28+00:00

One of the 48 laws Make others dependent on you. You can interpret this different ways, but what I would do is just make sure you and everyone else is having fun and have skills that can help others. Once you are missing from the group for some time they will miss your energy and skills I. E. fairness in breaking up arguments and will gravitate and make sure you are there. Ask be assertive and make decisions for the group. If they want to eat somewhere then pick the restaurant etc.

room_303 · 2018-04-21T14:34:13+00:00

Leader - what is this this high school?

Title	Become the leader of your male friends
Author	Thelminator
Upvotes	6
Comments	6
Date	April 20, 2018 5:48 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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