which is worse, getting rejected by a girl or not even approaching her in the first place

SenoCP9 · 2021-05-07T07:44:02+00:00

Why having a chance when not even trying. Just try and shoot your shot. Its simple but you will regret it saying nothing

Alive-Doughnut2345 · 2021-05-07T09:16:00+00:00

I’d argue not approaching because that can potentially haunt you for life. A rejection you’ll get over after a couple days. Imo at least

2021-05-07T07:47:15+00:00

Nothing ventured...nothing gained. Everyone, every single person on this planet, male and female, will have had, at some point in their life, a "crush" on someone, where they were rejected. Its happens. Move on... :)

LucasTheLlizard · 2021-05-07T10:41:03+00:00

If you never ask the answer is always no. It's better to be honest with your feelings. This way you know the truth instead of making up fictional scenarios in your brain.

gbizzle2 · 2021-05-07T07:28:21+00:00

Getting rejected. Because if youre on your shit women will throw themselves at you all the time and not approaching her = rejecting her.

Plus neither matters as much as focusing on yourself

LucasTheLlizard · 2021-05-07T10:55:45+00:00

What is the alternative to aproaching and potencially getting rejected. Scotty isn't gonna beam you a partner down from the Enterprise. I am glad for all my rejections because it was always a good learning lesson. It was a reality check of sorts. Everyone fails in their life it's impossible not to. It's important to learn from your mistakes. Instead of having them demotivate you from living your life.

AAF-18 · 2021-05-07T11:16:24+00:00

Lets put it ths way -> You only score a goal if you shoot the ball. Bro reframe your mindset: think like this is a game with different levels, and pratice your skills on the woman around you. Eventually you will get better and level up. Also, don't invest too much emotionaly on ppl you don't even know yet. And remeber, she doesn't reject you as person, she rejects your weak game. Train and you will get better

Reddyreddy22 · 2021-05-07T11:46:16+00:00

If you don’t even try the answer is no.

Title	which is worse, getting rejected by a girl or not even approaching her in the first place
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Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	May 7, 2021 7:24 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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