Whats up boys, I want to tell you about my first date in a while.

Oooeeeks · 2021-04-28T14:03:56+00:00

Queer gal here.

It sounds like it’s not clear what her sexual intentions are. She might be someone who waits till a certain date, a certain feeling, her own horniness.

If you’re vibing and you like her, go for the second date! My encouragement is to be honest with yourself and them. If your dates arent leading to sex, it might just be different compatibility!

Sounds like it’s been fun and new. Hope it goes well!!

ProjectPeakAdmin · 2021-04-29T00:30:56+00:00

Sounds like you're on the right track I would just keep it up. Escalate slowly and gauge the response as you go. Also your writing style is very entertaining lol

As far as hiking goes that may be more of a third or fourth date idea because it tends to be remote. Here are a few fun second date ideas to pick from that may be better:

A game of tennis followed by dinner someplace nearby
Trivia night at a bar followed by a movie at your place
I take salsa dancing lessons in my town and they always have events going on. Look for something similar that you can be apart of and invite girls to
Skating if there is a place for it nearby (even if you aren't great at it this can be a fun one to learn with a girl). Most skating places will have an arcade that you can also go to and after that you can go get pizza to take back to your place
Food tours/wine tasting
If you have a wing or know another couple invite them all out to go bowling. Just like skating this one can be followed with some arcade games and pizza which you can bring back to your place
A science museum (if there is one nearby) followed by drinks at a bar or coffee shop if you don't drink alcohol

Also something that helped me get over my anxiety around really attractive girls (and this is going to be kind of graphic but it can help a lot) is to imagine them jerking off while they think about you. I know it sounds kinda weird but anytime I get too in my head about a girl's looks that mental image snaps me out of it and makes me super relaxed and confident around them.

I'd like to hear the follow up to this post so feel free to respond to this comment with a link after date #2

2021-04-29T01:30:54+00:00

Those are good suggestions. Thank you for complimenting my writing style as I actually take it rather seriously, I try to entertain people in my posts as oppose to just building a wall of text.

The only issue I foresee is who’s place we end up going back to. There are two distinct reasons: She lives with her parents, (who are working at home due to COVID,) and possibly a younger sibling. Sounds like a big place as its up in one of the nicer towns in this county but I can see her stating a concern for a lack of privacy. Some parents are also a handful with dating and guests even when it comes to their grown ass adult children.

My place is, well its not the kind of place I want to bring friends. I’m currently staying in a temporary single room apartment, in what is basically a converted motel. Its pretty run down and not sexy, and my neighbors are loud, nosy, and usually drinking during the day. I keep the place as clean as I possibly can, but its a little embarrassing to show to a potential partner. Might be a turn off for her, might not. She seems very open minded and non judgmental, but yea, either place could be an issue. Finding apartments around here is a nightmare (northern nj) but depending on how much we end up liking each other it might not matter.

aneptuniangrl · 2021-04-28T14:10:26+00:00

She might’ve been nervous. I give weird side hugs too and she doesn’t want to give u the wrong impression that she wants sex just yet which is why she didn’t send any sexual signals to you

Title	Whats up boys, I want to tell you about my first date in a while.
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Date	April 28, 2021 9:48 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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