Will I ever get to experience what I want at my age?

Therocksays2020 · 2021-04-22T18:43:33+00:00

There are plenty of women who want something casual.

Not knowing anything about you sometimes just telling a woman you want something casual doesn’t fly though especially if you don’t have great looks or game.

You’re better off showing traditional interest and then just moving towards sex. If they ask be honest you’re looking for something casual.

ChaosBlaze9 · 2021-04-22T18:37:30+00:00

Damn bro sorry didn’t have a great youth. Are you still a virgin?

I can't go from not having much experiences to being a provider if I'm not happy and ok with that.

Why are you so keen on getting “experiences”? Having sex isn’t some badge of honor or what determines your value. Just get out there man. Confidence will come from within not from how many girls you’ve had sex with or how much you can bench.

I only say that because it seems most women my age only want something serious.

Perhaps you could try dating younger girls in their mid to late 20s. Honestly, why are you so afraid of settling down? I am in my late teens/early 20s and I might not the majority opinion here but there’s no harm is settling down. You don’t have to have 30+ body counts to have value. I might get some flack for this here but you don’t have to constantly be on the lookout for pussy. Just meet new people for who they are not if they’ll let you get in their pants. If a girl wants a relationship there’s no harm in that and respect her decision. I may be wrong but I think it’s your obsession with getting hookups that maybe be hindering your game.

Spiritual_Try_246 · 2021-04-23T02:42:52+00:00

Be transparent from the beginning- women appreciate honesty. If she’s cool with it, you’ll end up having casual sex. If not, she’ll reject you. Either way it’s all good. Rejection is nothing personal and you reaction to rejection shows how emotionally mature you are. Instead of focusing on rejection congratulate yourself for trying in the first place.

Dutchcat1077 · 2021-04-22T18:26:34+00:00

Dude, you’re approaching “Daddy” age. You want casual sex and lots of it??? Find yourself a 19-23yr old. They love older men and are not shy about expressing that. If you need some confidence hit up a strip club. Chat the girls up, you’ll buy a few drinks but that’s the same thing you’d do in a regular bar. Chatting with women in general is something to go out of your way to do so you become less awkward.

dasanman69 · 2021-04-22T18:35:23+00:00

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2021-04-22T19:41:00+00:00

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2021-04-22T19:41:26+00:00

Go to swingers parties for the casual sex.

spaceinvaders123 · 2021-04-22T23:29:20+00:00

I just posted about what to say when a woman asks you about what you are looking for.

Now, get up and get your shit together. Start with the basics. If you need help DM me and I'll give you advice on how to start. But you need to start today. Style, exercise, social interactions, and knowing who you are/ having a life purpose.

Title	Will I ever get to experience what I want at my age?
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Upvotes	8
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Date	April 22, 2021 5:59 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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